Tuesday, October 26, 2010

The Bump

36 Weeks

 37 Weeks
 
38 Weeks

39 Weeks

Monday, October 18, 2010

If I wasn't us, I'd be super jealous of us.

That's what I told Jason yesterday evening as we filled our bowls with seconds of homemade red beans and rice with shrimp.


It really is the little things that make life great. A perfect, cool fall evening complete with gorgeous sunset. Supper by the fire in the backyard... a backyard that you can have a fire in. Leaving the windows open and the a/c off. Sunrise walk... well, ok, waddle... with the dogs. Enjoying what are sure to be the last calm, quiet days I have left for a very long time.


I am truly, truly blessed.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

38 Weeks & Awesome Shower

Less than two weeks to go. WOW! I am excited, anxious, and nervous all at the same time! The doc told me Monday to make sure my bag is packed and the car gassed up because it could be "go" time any day now!


I mostly feel ok still. My hips and pelvic bones ache almost constantly, but according to the doc, this is good, it means he's descending and getting ready to go! My feet and legs look like tree trunks, also due to the added circulatory constriction caused by his dropping lower, but the good news: not long to go! and, up until now I've been very lucky and blessed to have very few and very minor discomforts.


Thank you again to all of the wonderful ladies (and their male counterparts that helped!!) that hosted a baby shower for us this past weekend. It was tons of fun, and so great to get to see and visit with everyone! The food was awesome, the decorations were perfect, I think that's THE best diaper cake I have ever seen, and the cake was SOOOOO good! Thanks also to everyone that came and brought us something special for baby Chapman, he's not even here yet and already spoiled! There will be pics to come! I didn't take any, but there were several cameras around!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Crazy? Maybe. Happy about it? Definitely!

**Caution: In parts of this post I get up on my soap box and rant. If you don't care to hear it... then stop reading!

At 31 Weeks pregnant I fired my original Obstetrician--not recommended at near mid-third trimester. I'm sure that she's a perfectly good Doctor, just not the Doctor for me. Our attitudes and philosophies towards pregnancy and birth are DRAMATICALLY different, and I soon learned, unfortunately due to the way most doctors are trained, that my attitude and philosophy towards pregnancy and birth are very very different from most doctors, and honestly, most women. I'm not judging other people's choices, I'm just telling you what I feel is right for me. Pregnancy is not a disease, and thus should not be treated like one--doctors are generally trained from the perspective that women and pregnancy are broken they have to "fix" it. It is a natural physiological process that has been happening-without doctors and tons of drugs-FOREVER--doctors are generally not trained in the "natural" process. Contrary to what this doctor told me, I believe that most women and their bodies, when prepared adequately (Note that most women are NOT prepared adequately if at all), ARE physically and mentally capable of handling pregnancy and birth with little or no intervention. Don't get me wrong, I do believe that high quality prenatal and delivery care by a professional is a necessity, their job is to watch for, catch, and treat anything that does go wrong, and that drugs and interventions can be a good thing and do have their place. I know that there are situations in which intervention saves the lives of moms and babies. My major disagreement or complaint about the mainstream system is its gross overuse of all these interventions based solely on convenience or "standard protocol" with little to no regard for the possible side affects for moms and babies. Most mainstream doctors are not practicing and adjusting their practices according to the research, many it seems are still using practices that the research is not finding beneficial at all (or even safe!), and much less so when used for every woman, regardless of medical necessity. The general attitude is that if an intervention has a side affect, it's ok, because they can treat that side affect with another intervention, and if that intervention has a side effect, it's ok, there are more interventions that can be done... it's a vicious cycle. Most women, who trust their doctors' knowledge and skill, just as I did going into this pregnancy, are never told about all of the things that could go wrong with interventions and all the added risks they are choosing to take when they have elective interventions. All too often, women are encouraged to choose intervention for convenience. Dr: "I have a tennis lesson to get to, so let's just go ahead and do that c-section". Why would doctors, the people who are supposed to take care of you, encourage you to choose MAJOR SURGERY when, in many cases (obviously it is necessary sometimes), there is a safer alternative, or it's just as safe to be patient and do nothing! Women are not being told that they have a much smaller chance of things going wrong if nature is allowed to take its course.  Being patient and allowing the process to happen is inconvenient. Most women are told about interventions, "Don't worry, it's safe." or "You just leave that up to me." I, however, was not satisfied with this kind of blatant evasion of my questions. Had it not been for my desire to research and learn all I can about pregnancy and birth, and the support from both my super awesome husband and my super awesome doula, (and my rebellion against being told that "women can't do that") I too would have simply followed in line with all the rest. Again, no judgment intended, just expressing my opinion.  


So, in my frustrating quest for a new doctor in the B/CS area that would have a "less interventionist" philosophy (and take my insurance), I came up empty handed. All of the doctors/practices that I researched and/or visited with had alarmingly high rates of induction, cesarean, and episiotomy (one doc had an 80% episiotomy rate! yikes!), and I learned that both hospitals in B/CS also have intervention rates well above the state averages, and standard protocols that are not conducive to a non-interventionist birth. Not a good sign. Yes, I know that plenty of perfectly healthy, happy, babies are delivered here and in similar hospitals with similar doctors all over the US, but that still does not make it the right situation for us. Plenty of our parents rode around unbuckled or in the backs of pick-ups most of their childhood and turned out fine... that still doesn't make it safe.


When in doubt, what do I do? Google! And... viola! Where else but good old Austin, TX would I find the answer to my prayers. A practice with both doctors and midwives, with a strong non-interventionist philosophy (they only use interventions when truly medically necessary), that works with a super supportive LDR unit at a nationally acclaimed, top of the line, state of the art hospital. AND is only a little further from our house than B/CS. After perusing their website for awhile, talking to one of my best friends who lives in ATX and delivered her youngest son at the same hospital, getting rave reviews from all questioned including friends and friends of friends in the ATX area, I called to inquire. After brief conversations with a couple of nurses and one of the midwives explaining my situation, I was approved for and encouraged to transfer and I was set up for a consultation appointment the very next morning! What a whirlwind! 

It was wonderful! I had no idea the true extent to which I was displeased with my original doctor until I visited the new one! Jason went with me the second time, and we attended the hospital tour and the meet and greet with all of the doctors and midwives with this new practice. They all openly share the same philosophy of care, and since they work in a collaborative model, we will meet and get prenatal care from all of them, and be guaranteed that (at least) one of them will be present during my birth (much different from the "Only if I'm on-call" approach by my first dr).It's been so refreshing to be treated like a person experiencing a wonderful thing, not just a chart that needs some drugs and  procedures assigned to it!


I could go on and on (and would be glad to, all you have to do is ask!), but long story short, I am pleased and confident with the decision we have made!


Interested in learning more about any of this?? Here are a couple of great, eye-opening books that I read and would definitely recommend! Especially to moms! (I have them if you'd like to borrow!)
The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth-Henci Goer
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth-Ina May Gaskin

Has it really been three weeks since my last post???

It appears that it has... lots to update!


Only a little over a month to go before the arrival of Baby Chapman (who is still nameless)! Wow!


I am officially unemployed as of last Wednesday! Yay! I have however, been keeping  myself quite busy. Jason has been accusing me of nesting, but I say I'm just doing all the things I've been going to do since we moved in here (i.e. cleaning out the weird boxes of random junk that no one knows why we kept and moved in the first place!). I'm also packing away all my work stuff to be stored, reorganizing to make room for baby stuff, and just generally purging the house of the random useless junk. Ok, so maybe I am nesting a little... but I've sure been giving my golf cart a good workout hauling stuff to the dumpster! And, I've learned, that roomba is a floor's best friend!


Went to Angelo last weekend for a wonderful baby shower hosted by my sisters, two cousins, and one of my very best friends. It was great! Great food, great friends and family to visit with, and of course, great baby stuff! Thanks everyone! I did learn however, that riding in the car for that long at 7 1/2 months pregnant is not fun.

35 Week bUmPDATE


How far along: 35 Weeks, 1 Day


Total Weight Gain: +35... I feel like a big BEAST!


Stretch marks: only a few little ones!


Symptoms: my. hips. hurt.


Sleep: so-so, between my hips keeping me awake, and getting up to use the restroom every 2-3 hours. Not much longer though!


Best moments this week: 1. Cash-dog sniffing my belly and then sticking his ear up against it like he's listening to Baby. Hahaha! 2. Two words: Caterpillar cake.


Movement: all the time


Food cravings: Mexican food


What I miss: Not planning every outing away from the house around where the good pit-stops are.


What I look forward to: Dr. appointment Wednesday


Weekly wisdom: Smile, people will wonder what you're up to!

Friday, September 3, 2010

Googling

The inner-workings of my brain are a mystery... even to me...


Is it my love for learning?... is it my weird (sometimes morbid) curiosity?... is it just a complete fascination with the worlds of information available on a whim via the internet phenomenon called Google? Why I ponder seemingly useless, irrelevant, information is beyond me. Who really knows. In any case... here's a little sample of some of the smorgasbord of things that pop into my head, often with no apparent stimulus, on any given day, that I proceed to Google:
*Please note that none of these are intended to be rude, insensitive, or otherwise offensive. I am genuinely curious...
  • Do small people (dwarfs, midgets, etc.) have smaller toilets in their houses? If not, logistically, how does that work? step stool?
  • How big is a baby armadillo?
  • This one is courtesy of my sister: What happens to fish when lightening strikes a body of water? 
  • What does whale poo look like?
  • Do elephants really have excellent memories?
  • Are unicorns considered wild or domestic?
  • Ok, I get how a blind kid can SEND a text message... but how can he read the response??? I'm not being rude, it's a legitimate question!
  • Clarify herd vs flock. Lots of buffalo (don't fly)=herd. Lots of cattle (also do not fly)=herd. Lots of pigeons (fly)=flock. Lots of geese (they fly too)=flock. Lots of sheep (fly? no)=flock? hmmm...
Curious now aren't you....

Monday, August 30, 2010

32 Week bUmPDATE

How far along: 32 weeks, 1 day


Total Weight Gain: +30


Stretch Marks: I discovered a few... but they are small!


Symptoms: nothing new except my hips get achy


Sleep: usually pretty good, sometimes hard to get comfortable


Best moment this week: finally getting the picture for his room in a frame without breaking the glass... I guess third time is a charm!


Movement: all the time, less big movements and more squirming and wiggling


Food Cravings/Aversions: macaroni and cheese... yum.


What I miss: having some heat tolerance. Poor Jason is going to turn into a popcicle!


What I look forward to: visitors this coming weekend! Angelo the next weekend!


Weekly wisdom: Listen to your intuition... it may be trying to tell you something important.

The Bump

So... I've been a bit of a slacker with the photos. What can I say? I'm a busy girl!

Week 27

Week 31

Week 32

Only 8 more (give or take...) weeks to go!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

30 Week bUmPDATE

How far along: 30 weeks, 3 days


Total weight gain: +25


Stretch marks: not yet!


Symptoms: Increasing frequency of insomnia, edema (swelling), super sensitivity to certain smells (coffee smell... makes me gag), shortness of breath


Sleep: restless, lots of tossing and turning despite the 42 pillows I try to prop and support with


Best moment this week: seeing that beautiful face on the ultrasound


Movement: all the time


Food cravings/aversions: sweets


What I miss: seeing my feet without craning my neck and bending over :)


What I look forward to: actually meeting this little miracle


Milestones: 3/4 of the way there!


Weekly wisdom: Despite its discomforts-which I have been blessed enough to only experience mildly if at all-I'm actually enjoying pregnancy. I am truly thankful that have been granted the opportunity to experience first-hand the creation of a new life.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

4-D Ultrasound Pic

Love this face already!

At our appointment last week (28 weeks and some days), the Dr. thought he was measuring kinda big-like 4 weeks big-so she scheduled us for an ultrasound Monday to get a better idea how big he is. He appears to be totally healthy, and turns out he has a BIG head, 93rd percentile, full of brains of course... he get's this from his mommy. :) His abdomen is a bit bigger than average for this gestational age, and his legs are right on track with average. We go back again next week to find out what this all means, if anything.

A Work in Progress

The conversion from office/junk room to nursery....

This is where everything in our house that does not have a designated "place" lives... er.. lived.


Mammaw was good help cleaning out the room...


Blank slate...

Begin furniture construction...

Dresser/Changer

Is that a manatee?? oh.. right... that's me...

Furniture construction makes honey tired...




There's still much progress to be made... but it's a great start!

Monday, August 2, 2010

28 Week bUmPDATE

Oops... missed 27 week.

How far along: 28 weeks, 1 day

Total weight gain: holding steady at +23

Stretch marks: still none showing

Symptoms: more frequent insomnia... same, other than that

Sleep: yes please, I would love to.

Best moment this week: listening to baby's heartbeat with my at "home" heart monitor

Movement: getting stronger all the time, less tiny ninja, more tiny DONKEY

Food cravings: chocolate

Belly button: still in, but almost completely flat

What I miss: fitting in the first thing I put on

What I look forward to: Brooklyn's wedding this weekend, and going H.O.M.E.

Weekly wisdom: Change is good... and inevitable. Don't fight it... embrace it and love the good things that it brings.

Milestones: Third trimester!

The End Is Near

Though I am excited and anxious for camp to be over, the end is all a little bittersweet. I am happy to be finally putting my marriage and family first, and excited about the changes soon to come, but as I spend what is my last few days here, a part of me is filled with sadness. Sadness to be cutting loose from the place and organization that has been such a huge part of my life and my personal and professional development for such a long time, and a place that is  filled with so many memories.

But, all in all, change is for the better right? The personal and professional connections I have made will remain regardless of my employment status. The memories are still mine. No bridges have been burned. 

So, I look forward with optimism to the changes and challenges that lie ahead. I have always been open to new opportunities and unafraid to walk into newly-sometimes unexpectedly-opened doors. Look out world! I'm about to be a free agent!

Monday, July 19, 2010

Recent Happenings and Week 26 bUmPDATE

Had an excellent weekend celebrating the end of single-ness for Brooklyn. They started Friday with a fun day on the lake, but I spent Friday with Jason and then joined the festivities Friday evening at Shar's. Saturday involved sleeping in, lingerie shower, delicious Japanese supper, and then Pete's Dueling Piano Bar, where luckily, if you are the pregnant designated driver, you get all the free water you can drink! After a brief search for the vehicle and a bit of navigational confusion (thank you Ft. Worth roadways) we all made it home safely! The girls all slept in but I of course was wide awake at 7:15, so I got myself up and joined Jason and family at church and then lunch. Now I'm back at camp on a lovely Monday morning preparing for the arrival of our next camp this afternoon. Less than three weeks of camp remain. Let's hope it goes by fast!

Week 26 bUmPDATE

How far along: 26 weeks, 1 day

Total weight gain: +20.5

Stretch marks: still none... one of these mornings I just know I'm going to wake up and they'll be there!

Symptoms: same, cankles, heartburn, bathroom visits every 20 minutes... plus occasional sleeplessness

Sleep: getting harder and harder to actually get to sleep, but usually good once I drift off

Best moment this week: spending the day with Jason

Movement: he's practically the karate kid

Food Cravings: yes, I crave food.

Belly button: still in... but barely!

What I miss: home

What I look forward to: going home

Weekly wisdom: Me-So, where's the car? Response (yes, she was serious)-Shouldn't it be where we parked it? Me-Thank you for clearing that up.

 

Monday, July 12, 2010

The Bump Weeks 21-25

21 Weeks

Sorry,  Missed 22!!

23 Weeks

24 Weeks

25 Weeks

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Week 24 bUmPDATE

How far along: 24 weeks, 2 days


Total Weight Gain: +18


Stretch Marks: not yet....


Symptoms: fiery dragon breath heartburn, bring on the tums. Calf cramps... youch!


Sleep: pretty good when I'm not having crazy weird dreams or waking up for the heartburn or the leg cramps.


Best moment this week: sleeping and waking up in my own bed this past weekend.


Movement: all the time. He's going to be a NINJA!


Gender: Boy... although, the Santa Anna Dairy Queen lady--apparently the local authority on the gender of perfect strangers' babies based on belly shape--disagrees.


Food Cravings: fresh fruit


Belly Button: hardly a button anymore... almost flat.


What I miss: icy cold coca cola


What I look forward to: Friday Dr. appointment, and weekend visitors!


Weekly Wisdom: "It is better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt."

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Week 23 bUmPDATE

How far along: 23 Weeks


Total weight gain: +16


Stretch marks: still none yet


Symptoms: I no longer have ankles... my calves just attach directly to my feet... ugh.


Sleep: mostly good


Best moment this week: Jason felt him move for the first time, very cool!


Movement: lots! Kicking, rolling, and punching. Seems like all day long (and some at night!).


Food cravings/aversions: nothing new


Belly Button in or out: still in, but getting flatter and flatter.


What I miss: home... my own bed... 


What I look forward to: the end of camp and getting to go home for good. 5 Weeks left, you can do it Laci.


Weekly wisdom: Don't forget to take a moment to breathe.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Thursday, June 10, 2010

The Bump

More pics of the blossoming belly! It's getting pretty obvious now!
 
17 Weeks

Sorry! Missed 18!

19 Weeks

20 Weeks

Summer Staff Training, 3rd Anniversary, Minor Scare, and bUmPDATE

So I'm sure you can all tell--by my lack of updates--that I've been very busy with camp! It's fun but tiring, I'm looking forward to August... the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter!


Staff training the last two weeks of May went well! It flew by and I think I've got an outstanding group of young people to work with for the remainder of the summer!


I am thankful everyday for my wonderful husband and his patience, strength, and love. I can't imagine my life without him. For the third year in a row, Jason and I celebrated our anniversary apart, but we did get to spend that weekend together! We met at a campground on the Brazos River, just below Possum Kingdom Lake, and spent our Saturday paddling the 19+ mile stretch that I'll be taking kids down on our adventure trip here in a few weeks. We were pretty tired by the end--it really should be split into a two day trip--and with it being Memorial Day weekend, we decided to pack up and go get a hotel room and a real bed instead of sleeping on the ground like we did the night before. On Sunday, we went over and had lunch with Dida, then spent the afternoon  doing some shopping and a few errands. 


Back at camp the following week, I stayed busy with planning and preparing, more lifeguard training, and the first of two Hunter Ed/Shooting Sports Camps... maybe a little too busy it turns out. We had a little bit of a scare last Friday. Mid morning I started having some lower abdominal cramping. I went and read my book (not the best plan I found out) and it told me all about all the horrible things that cramping could be a symptom of... cue panic. After talking with the camp nurse, I went to lay down and rest for awhile, but after about an hour and no improvement, I went ahead and called my doctor. They said it could be nothing, but for me to go ahead and go get checked out. So, long story short, after being shuttled all over the medical center, I ended up in OB hooked to some monitors and other things. I was in fact having uterine cramping (a.k.a. small contractions), but it was triggered by bladder cramping caused by a bladder infection, which is very very common during pregnancy due to the added pressure and stress on the bladder. Phew! We were relieved and thankful that it wasn't anything more serious. By supper time, they had me pumped full of fluids and antibiotics, had the cramps pretty much stopped, and had sent me home. Well, back to camp "home". Mama came and spent Friday and Saturday nights with me to help enforce the strict R&R instructions I was given, as well as entertain me so I didn't get too bored. It was nice having her there, we had a good time not doing much of anything!


Now almost a week later, I've had another busy week at camp, am almost finished with my antibiotics, and am feeling fine!


On to the good stuff...


20 Week bUmPDATE:


How far along: 20 weeks, 4 days


Total Weight Gain: +10... picking up the pace now!


Stretch marks: still none yet!


Symptoms: Nothing new or strange.


Sleep: Usually good, between getting up to "go".


Best moment this week: Trying to feel baby movement from the outside... it's getting stronger!


Movement: LOTS. Punching, rolling. wiggling, mostly mid-morning and when I lay down at night. Really I feel it anytime I'm sitting still.


Food Cravings/Aversions: green olives... I've NEVER liked them until now.


Belly Button: still in but getting flatter... may be on its way to being an outie.


What I miss: Amos


What I'm looking forward to: Baby gets a gender TOMORROW!! (Well, it already has one, we just find out tomorrow!)


Weekly Wisdom: Laughter is the best medicine.